Do you remember those days where you were just so happy to be in love? Those days where all you could think about was the person you were drooling over, until one day they asked you out? Or until they got with someone else and all of your hopes and dreams were crushed, it really does go one or two ways. But eventually as you got older, you would have learned what it was like to date, and what it was like to feel a connection with someone. Then, you would have got a little bit closer, and the dating would have got more intense. Until one day he asked you out, and you fell so deeply in love over time that you can’t imagine being with anyone else. It’s that feeling that once you find yourself in a long term relationship, you’re never actually going to get back. You’ll never be able to go through that new man stage, and the butterflies, unless of course you break up. But this article is not going to be all about trying to get you to split up with someone! It’s going to be about getting you to remember what love is, and to make time for it. Romance can so easily die in a relationship. But keeping it alive is what will keep you so in love. So keep on reading if you feel like your relationship needs reviving.
What Happened To Date Nights!?
Date nights are dead, ok! Unless you’re a new couple, or someone trying to get into a relationship, then we get that you’d be going out on dates all of the time. Afterall, it is the period of time where you’re both trying to impress each other. But why should this die? Your love life should be based around going on dates and being romantic together. Even if that date is going to the park and having a walk around, it’s so much better than just being stuck in the house all of the time. Because once you move in together, staying in or doing something with friends or family is all you seem to do! So, we urge you to bring date nights back into your lives. The power it has to make you fall back in love again is incredible. You’ll feel swept off your feet, and you can actually find things to talk about that don’t relate to your day, or the house! Plus, it gives you something to look forward to. We get it might be hard to make weekly dates a thing, but try doing dates every two weeks, we guarantee you won’t regret it!
The Special Occasions Matter
After you’ve been with someone a few years, you even find that the special occasions that used to matter so much to you both, seem to die out. Valentines day for example, which is really not that far away. It’s literally the day for romance, but so many couple who have been together for years just don’t spend it together. Us women especially are bad for it. We think that the woman should always be the one that’s being treated, and if that doesn’t happen then the day is just ignored! So this time, have a look at valentines gifts for him, and see what you could treat him to. It might put way more romance into your life if you focus on each other on the special days like this, and if he feels like he’s being treated! Go out and spend the night together, and even stop in a hotel together! The same goes for anniversaries. It’s literally the time to celebrate the two of you, so don’t ignore it!
Put A Little Bit Of Effort Into Yourself!
This is the final thing that we want to talk about. Back in the day you would have put so much effort into your looks and your figure, and so would your partner. You’re doing it to try and impress people, and then ultimately each other when you did find love. But that all goes out the window once you get a little bit comfortable. It’s easy to let yourself go, stop making an effort, and you don’t realise it until you come out of the relationship. But looking good for your partner should be what it is all about. You should have that desire to dress yourselves up, and keep yourselves in shape. You’ll be physically attracted to each other more, and you’ll find it so much easier to keep your sex life alive, as well as your love life.